Tuesday, November 13, 2007

My Life as a Kid-ult: Life Changing Xperience

In today's society, there are a lot of people who can say that their lives have been changed by someone or something. For me, that is no exception, for I have been impacted by plenty of events that have taken place in my life. The one event that seems to stand out more than others happens to be the time my mother lost her eyesight. This is the moment that ended my childhood, and started my early adulthood.
When I was 15 years old, my mother lost her eyesight and her hearing very quickly due to complications from diabetes. Being in and out the hospital, on a lot of medications, and a daily patient at the kidney dialysis center, she gradually became handicapped, needing help 24 hours a day. Over the course of a few months, and after dealing with a variety of unreliable nursing aides, I decided put school aside, and try 2 do the best I could to be a {very} un-official nurse. It was my responsibility to cook, clean, make groceries, do the laundry, and pay the bills for my mother. Obviously, this was a tough task at the time, but this was something that I needed to do.
As a senior in high school in 2005, I missed alot of days, and eventually found out that I wasnt graduating. As unfortunate as it was, I accepted the fact that I would have to get my GED at a later date, and continue taking care of my mother. On July 13, 2005, after a long battle with diabetes and tuberculosis, my mother passed away. It was very hard for me in the beginning, but I realized that she struggled often here, and she was definitely in a better place.
Having to take on such a difficult task at such a early age, I was one of those teens who couldnt really take advantage of being a teen. Suprisingly to some, it dosent bother me at all. that I didnt experience childhood to the maximum, because everything that I endured in that course of time, made me the person I am today. Today, at the age of 20, I find myself looking back, and I thank my mom, for she has raised me to be a man, in more ways than one!!!!